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Let me tell you what “deep cleaning” used to mean to me.
It meant I had to do everything.
Not just wipe down the counter. Not just vacuum the floor. I’m talking baseboards, inside cabinets, behind the toilet, under the bed, light fixtures… all of it.
And if I couldn’t do all of it, it didn’t feel worth starting.
That all-or-nothing thinking will keep your house dirty for months.
Add ADHD to the mix and it gets worse. Decision fatigue combined with random bursts of motivation. Low-energy days. A packed schedule.
Suddenly it’s been six weeks and you’re still “planning” to deep clean without having actually done anything. Super annoying.
So I stopped trying to do it perfectly.
This deep cleaning checklist is not about cleaning your entire home in one weekend. I don’t even like the sound of that.
It’s about working at your own pace and matching the task to your actual energy level so you don’t burn out halfway through and avoid it for another three months.
You don’t have to finish everything. You don’t have to do it fast. You just have to start somewhere.
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Let’s clear something up right now.
You are not meant to do everything on this checklist in a few days. That will wear you out and make you resent cleaning altogether.
Instead, use it in short chunks. Skip around. Repeat sections. Stop halfway through and come back later. This is not a competition. No one is timing you.
Here’s the simplest way I use it:
If setting a timer helps, aim for 15–20 minutes. If timers stress you out, ignore them. I can’t lie, I often forget I set a timer anyway, so I’m not fully convinced they’re magical. But if they work for you, use them.
Think of this checklist like a menu. You’re allowed to choose. You don’t have to “order everything.”
Most deep cleaning lists assume you wake up with the same amount of energy every single day.
That’s not real life.
Some days I can wipe down the whole kitchen and feel fine. Some days taking out the trash feels like an accomplishment. Both are valid.
So instead of asking, “What room should I deep clean?” I ask, “How much energy do I actually have right now?”
As you go through this list:
This one shift alone keeps me from spiraling. If it would help, I have an ADHD cleaning planner in my shop that you can take a look at here. It is chocked full of cleaning checklists for deep cleaning, regular cleaning, spring cleaning and more.
But what makes it different from other ADHD cleaning planner is that it doesn’t leave you hanging. It has a guides, tutorials, and encouragement throughout the planner.
I know i have stared blankly at many planners not knowing where to start or how to use it. But this planner gives guidance throughout so you aren’t left figuring out what to do next.
If the Where Do I Even Start cleaning planner sounds like something that would help, be sure to take a look by clicking here

(High visual impact, minimal effort)
These are the tasks I start with when I feel stuck or overwhelmed.
☐ Take out the trash
☐ Clear visible surfaces (use a basket if you need to just move things out of sight for now)
☐ Wipe one main surface like a counter, table, or sink
☐ Run the dishwasher or start a load of laundry
If you stop here, your home will already look noticeably better. And yes, that counts.
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(When you have a little momentum)
These require a bit more focus, but they’re still manageable if you’re working in short bursts. You do not need to do all of them. Pick one task in one room and stop when you’re ready.
☐ Wipe down countertops and backsplash
☐ Clean the sink and faucet
☐ Wipe the stovetop
☐ Clean the microwave (inside only is fine)
☐ Toss expired food from the fridge if you feel like it
Even partial cleaning in the kitchen makes a big difference. You do not have to empty cabinets or reorganize drawers for this to count.
☐ Clean the toilet
☐ Wipe the sink and counter
☐ Clean the mirror
☐ Quick wipe of the shower or tub
☐ Replace towels if needed
Bathrooms tend to feel cleaner fast, which can be motivating when you need a quick win.
☐ Clear visible clutter (and yes, hiding it temporarily is allowed)
☐ Dust one or two surfaces
☐ Vacuum or run the robot vacuum
If clutter is the main issue, focus on that first. Dusting can wait. You’re allowed to prioritize what bothers you most.
By the way, if you are looking for a general cleaning checklist, I’ve got one for you right here! Link: https://healthyasyoucan.com/2025/11/01/the-ultimate-house-cleaning-checklist-without-the-overwhelm/
☐ Make the bed (neat enough is fine)
☐ Clear the nightstand or dresser top
☐ Put laundry into a basket
☐ Change sheets if you have the energy
You do not need to reorganize your entire closet or color-code your drawers for your bedroom to feel better. Small changes still shift the space.
(Optional. Truly optional.)
Only look at this section if you actually feel up to it. Skipping these does not mean you failed to deep clean.
☐ Baseboards
☐ Windows or mirrors beyond the basics
☐ Inside the fridge
☐ Inside cabinets or drawers
☐ Light fixtures or ceiling fans
These are nice to do occasionally. They are not required for a livable, functional home.
Some weeks I don’t even touch this section.

This happens. Regularly.
If you feel yourself slowing down or wanting to quit:
There is no penalty for stopping.
Stopping before you’re burned out is actually the smarter move.
Pause for a second and look around.
What’s better than before?
Clearer surfaces.
Fewer piles.
A room that feels calmer.
Deep cleaning does not have to be finished in one session to be successful. It just has to move the needle.
You don’t need to deep clean perfectly to benefit from it.
By working at your own pace and choosing tasks based on your energy, you’re setting yourself up for consistency instead of burnout. And with ADHD, consistency matters more than intensity. Of course being consistent is one of the hardest things for us ADHDers to do so give yourself grace but don’t give up.
Use this checklist when you need it. Skip parts when you don’t. Come back later without beating yourself up. Take a look at the Where Do I Even Start ADHD cleaning planner https://store.healthyasyoucan.com/b/adhdcleaningplanner if you feel like that will help you on your journey.
And I will see you in the next post.
Perhaps this one about 9 Tired Girl-Friendly Cleaning Hacks For A “Spotless” Home! Is what you’d like to read next!
A no-guilt approach isn’t about doing less.
It’s about doing what actually works for you.
Mini Calming Anti-Anxiety Toolbox To Help Boost Your Mental Health On The Go!
1 Corinthians 7:32
“I want you to be free from anxieties.”
Oh man… we want this so badly, don’t we? To be free of anxiety and worry sounds amazing, doesn’t it?
But if I’m being honest, it also sounds elusive.
Like something that we might never have. With the news being at an unprecedented
level of stressfulness (yes I just made up a word), it’s hard to imagine that being free
from anxiety can be an actual “thing”.
I don’t want you to feel this way though.
You can fight and overcome anxiety.
Or at the very least you can reduce anxiety so much that it doesn’t rule your life and rob you of your joy.
The plan God has for your life will start to unfold before you once you stop letting fear and anxiety control you.
What you need is a kit of calming tools and strategies that you can turn to whenever anxiety starts to overcome you.
When you build this kit, you can use it to stop anxiety in its tracks (or greatly reduce it).
Arm yourself with these calming tools so you can have them at your disposal whenever you are in a stressful situation or you know you are able to go into an anxiety-inducing situation.
They will help you cope with whatever comes your way!
The beautiful thing about this mental health toolbox is that you can use this wherever you are…In the car, at work, on vacation, or at home.
And even your kids could use them if they suffer from mental health issues!
Or you could create one to give as a gift to someone you know who struggles with anxiety!
So let’s get started ya’ll!
A bad break-up.
A sick child.
Medical bills piling up with no idea of how you’re going to pay for it.
The truth is there are so many potential fears & anxiety triggers that it can be hard to know how to get to the root of your anxiety and figure out what in the world is causing those knots to tighten in your stomach.
I know everyone experiences anxiety from time to time.
There are unexpected circumstances that come up in life that leave us feeling more worried, scared, or anxious than usual.
Experiencing anxiety every now and then is normal.
But I’m talking about the kind of fear that hovers over you to the point where you can’t enjoy activities that you used to love.
The kind of anxiety that debilitates you.
If that’s the kind of fear you have and you want to know the root cause of it then please stick around.
Why?
Because digging deep and learning the root of your anxiety issues can help you stop an anxiety attack from happening in the future.
So let’s dive right in so you can start to get the help you need.
Should I try online therapy is the same question I asked myself over 10 years ago when I was suffering from depression and anxiety.
Not only was I depressed and anxious but I also had unrecognized ADHD. which explained why everything felt so hard, overwhelming, and exhausting—even things that were “supposed” to help me.
I knew I needed help escaping the dark prison that was my brain but the thought of talking to someone face to face was not an option for me at that time.
This may be the same situation you see yourself in at the moment and so I’m going to tell you upfront:
Yes, you should get online therapy and in today’s post, I’m going to tell you why and where you can get it.
This is what we’ll cover:
Online therapy is a tool that I give major credit to in my mental health journey.
I promise you, I would not be writing this blog post without having done online counseling many years ago.
I was too depressed and anxious to actually start a blog and too self-conscious to put myself out there.
Truth is having a healthy body but an unhealthy mind, so to speak, just won’t cut it y’all.
I’m nowhere close to where I want to be physically, financially, mentally, or spiritually.
But I do understand fully that all of these aspects work together to create the healthiest person possible.
Your mind is a big component of why you do what you do.
If you feel like everything is a huge struggle and you haven’t tried online counseling yet then I’m going to share with you 3 true benefits that online therapy has vs traditional therapy and which site helped me the most.
Please stay tuned because I really want you to move the needle from where you are now towards where you want to be.
Change is possible with online therapy and I’m going to show you just a glimpse of how it can help you!Continue reading